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Monday, May 12, 2008 --- 73 days ago http://essentialdatingtips.blogspot.com/2008/05/use-your-natural-charisma-to-get
| I have a question for you: Have you ever approached a woman, gotten a good initial reaction, and ejected before it could go bad? Why do we do this? Are we so desperate to stay in the good mood that we established by getting a decent initial reaction from the chick, that we'd sacrifice a possible lay just to take the SURE THING that we'll stay in a good mood? Are we really like that? ANSWER: I think that psychologically, we all cope by building a self-image for ourselves. Teenagers will turn goth, or prep, or find cliques, or get really into a pro sports team, or get really into a certain type of music, or get involved with drugs. We did this stuff because we struggled to find our own IDENTITY. As we get older, we find our own identity and it's typically more sophisticated than when we were younger. However, it's still how we GET BY psychologically. So in a lot of ways, it's no better, but just further developed. Follow me here. NOBODY likes to think of themselves as "bad with women", because we NEED to feel desirable as a FUNDAMENTAL part of our self-identity. To feel undesirable sexually would imply MANY MANY BAD THINGS about ourselves, including bad genetics, bad personality, bad social intelligence, bad upbringing, etc. This is why if you tell guys you study seduction, they freak out and get all pissy. Because to imply that they would need HELP with their desirability is to imply MANY bad things about them. ... |
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