by Derek Vitalio A lot of guys, when they try to change their success with women, wind up going the wrong way. They pick out the wrong characteristics, never truly commit themselves to the characteristics anyway, and so come across as false and sleazy. The key to doing it RIGHT is all in the body. How does a sleaze become a sleaze? 'Heeeey baby.' When you picture a guy saying that, what do you see? Let me guess - some lounge lizard with a pencil moustache, a gold medallion bigger than a fist, and a SLEAZY smile. Ugh. These are guys who've REALLY lost their way. That's no way to get a girl. But have you ever thought about WHY, exactly? I mean, yeah, they obviously want to sleep with women. But that can't be it - if you're a straight guy, then YOU do too. By definition, every man who ends up with a woman MUST want to be with her. Well, what about the fact that these guys are so desperately OBVIOUS about it? Now we're getting warmer. How about these guys immediately pigeonholing both themselves and the women around them as nothing more than meat? Ah, yes. Add in that most of the sleaze is far from good-looking - as most men are - and you REALLY don't want to get a woman thinking about you as nothing more than meat. So why is it that the sleaze becomes, well, sleazy? Start with a lot of failure (like most guys start with). Let that settle into insecurity. Which matures to desperation, and eventually the will to DO something. ...
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